Thursday, July 31, 2008
No respect in the bedroom!
Right... where to begin? Just about every man/boy on the planet has seen that forbidden taboo that is known as porn, or on the Internet as Pr0n. Having been an avid viewer but not as hardcore as some, I can safely say its an entertaining experience for dudes, and even for some dudettes believe it or not!
Of course while we're lead to believe that the women in these movies enjoy what they're doing, the reality is they do it for a simple reason, and that's the quick money that can be earned. Seems like a lot of people don't know this for some reason, or the fact that the movies are often done in takes like a normal movie.
Anyway besides all that stuff, lets delve in to the norm or whatnot here for a second. Let's face it, practically every guy on the planet wouldn't complain if the stuff of porn movies happened to them, actually they would more likely be saying Halleluah!
But in reality it would seem that women don't really like doing most of that stuff (probably a percentage of exceptions)... ooh what a disappointment. And women say we're sexed crazed maniacs... well news flash... we are! I'm sure that was designed in for survival of the species and stuff (*ahem ahem* yes that's what it is!)
Still though many women abroad and even here do some of that stuff. Some people I know say they do so out of a sense of 'duty', while others do it for fun, but I think it's mostly the former. Still as guys we want it right? Really? Let me think about that... yep!
So even if they don't like... would be still want them to do it? Hell yeah? We do stuff like shopping and other stuff like watching Chick flicks that (most of us) we don't like among other things. Some guys give up their freedoms (everyone actually) so isn't it only fair to make it a two way street of shit we don't really wanna do?
I once asked a good friend of mine whether she would ever do a belly dance for a guy. She said 'NO! I want to respectable!' I said 'uh huh' and was really thinking 'gosh... how boring!'. Does any guy want a woman to be respectable when it comes to you know what? I don't think so! Just cos we *might* be like animals in da bedroom, doesn't mean it's a lack of respect or something. We might respect a woman in all other areas... but when it comes to that... not really! It's not personal really. It just is....
It's not like Porn came first... guys and probably women came up with that shit before the camera was invented. Trust me... we'd figure to try it out anyway! Let's face it... we guys like da kinky shit! Even the straight laced bible thumpers!
I hope you get what I'm trying to say. Reality ain't like the romance movies... but it can be nice depending on how you view it. It's all a matter of perception.